ARE YOU SLAVING FOR SOMEONE ELSE DREAM?
Many would say the title is insane. But, is it really? Do you understand what it is asking? Or are you part of the 85 percent that will work for 30 years for someone and not attempt something else that your heart so so desires. Dreading every monday and getting excited about Friday for a two day break. What is so great about this? Do you want to experience something else? While you ponder this answer this question.
Will you take the red pill or blue pill?
While you ponder lets see how you got to where you are now? The slave force, oops sorry workforce.
In the Begining
Spiritual Believers; when GOD created Earth, there was man and woman and after that they had children and so on and so on. But, at any time did any of them work for a boss or everyone worked for self and fullfilled their dreams. Maybe they worked with each other to help the other fullfill their dreams. But, i do not personally believe they were enslaved in someone elses dream. But, dreaming a dream of there own.
Building a Pyramid In Egypt
Matter of fact when you think about it when there was a demand for something that required multiple men and plenty of hours that is when the work force was created. Example; Pyramid in Egypt, it was not just built by one person it was built by 1000′s to 10,000s of people and probably 1000′s of hours to get it done. During that time there was no paycheck, they were slaves doing their bid of what was told to them. Now is that living a dream having someone beat you with a whip everyday and making you work for them. In the cold and hot days no break because the job had to be done. Now, is that living your own dream? Or living the dream of someone else?
Building Cotton Empire
Lets fast forward a couple of hundreads of years when slavery was brought over to the USA, now again people were taken from there homes and made to work in cotton field and other jobs that made there masters money. There was a great need for cotton and to make the vast amount of money they needed free labor or property (humans) to achieve that goal. Someone saw a need in the market where there was a high demand so workers were needed to reach that demand. Do you think that it was the cotton pickers dreams to pick cotton all their life and make their masters rich. Now is that living your dream? Or you living someone else dream?
Building your Dream
I understand that life is about surviving. Fighting to take care of your family. You have to work hard to achieve the goals you want in life. I have heard it all growing up. I tottally agree with it all. As I have grown up I have started to understand that I do not have to live in the realms of someone else dream. I am waking up from the corporate america matrix. Work hard till I make them rich only to retire with my 401K and no social security. What about my kids and my family, what am I leaving them? But, if you do not care about none of that then you are where you belong and I say congratulations. But, if you are looking for finacial independence and a way to broaden your horizon. Finally you can say I am living my dream and not any one else dream click the link below.
HOW ARE YOU LIVING YOUR LIFE ?
DULL OR AMAZING
Every day life, below is this you?
Go to Work
Spend Time with Family / Maybe?
Go to Bed and Wake up for Work
Did you know?
1. 80% of people are dissatisfied with their jobs
2. The average person spends 90,000 hours at work over their lifetime.
3. Couples in which one partner spends 10+ hours more than usual at work divorce at twice the average rate
4. There isn’t much job security. On average, Americans hold seven to eight different jobs before age 30.
5. 25% of employees say work is their main source of stress and 40% say their job is “very or extremely stressful”
If you are in one of these five statistics you are in the norm, not only in the U.S. but everywhere. Just reading these five statistics can make a person wonder how and why?
People like working 40-50 hours a week for 35 to 40 years and depositing there money in a savings account and when they turn 60 they may vacation or just sit in their house if it is paid for until it is time to go on to glory. But, In a survey done last year, the Society of Actuaries found that 55 percent of older Americans who continued working said they had done so to stay active and involved, while 51 percent said they had done so for additional income.
“One obvious reason people are working later is money,” said Steven A. Sass, program director at the Boston College Center for Retirement Research. “There’s a concern about what they have in their 401(k) and about Social Security.”
He said baby boomers were getting less than their parents did from Social Security because of the increase in the full retirement age — people cannot obtain full Social Security benefits until age 66, and for those born after 1957, the age will be 67. “Not only are they getting less from Social Security,” Mr. Sass said, “but many don’t have a pension that gives them a steady income after they retire.”
Regardless of what is stated and proven on this post people will still want to live the dull and complacent life of no chance and not extra work to get them away from the norm. Due to what ever reason unknown most individuals do not want to take a chance. They do not want to work some additional hours at something they are good at to make some additional money to maybe change their present and future. To stuck on the norm that it becomes their TRUE REALITY.
I hoped you enjoyed the video it inspired me to be different to dig deep within to go the extra mile for not only my family but for myself as well. I do not want to sit in an office for the next 30 years not sure if I have job security if the economy tanks again. I want to take my wife to the mall and say buy what you want and not have to worry about a bill not getting paid. I want to take my whole family (wife, kids, parents, Aunts, Uncles, and cousins and close friends on a trip that I pay for to just go have fun. This is thinking outside the box but taking a chance to be bold to be different and live not the norm but amazing. In every step I am living my life to the fullest, I don’t mind putting in hours for the benefit later. I look at athletes like Michael Jordan, Tiger woods, Wayne Gretzky and the list can go on. The only way they became successful they worked hard at amazing and not at the norm.
IF YOU HAD A CHOICE WHICH ONE WOULD YOU SELECT
THE NORM LIVING AMAZING
What about you, are you the Norm or want to Live Amazing?
Are you choosing to remain in the same place your are in, working for 60 years, or are you ready to make the choice to make the change?
Marriage is not easy, a lot of hardwork and dedication to building together a strong union that is pleasing to GOD and a testimony for other married couples.
10 Ways to Show Love to Your Wife HER Way
“What is wrong? Are the gestures extended not romantic or thoughtful? No. Are the recipients ungrateful and self-absorbed? No. The spouse is simply not romancing their spouse in a way that is romantic to them!
“This is a great truth that once practiced is sure to produce lasting fruit. Study your spouse. Find out what romance means to them? It may surprise you! But if you do your homework you will become the master of what really turns your spouse on!” (Tom and Debi, from Theromanticvineyard.com article, “10 Hindrances to Cultivating a Romantic Vineyard”)
Discuss this list with your wife. Ask her to check the ones meaningful to her, and then have her tell you the order she considers most important. Use this list to learn what speaks “love” to her. It’s likely very different from what speaks “love” to you. Your relationship can be strengthened by using this as a guideline —but keep in mind that these are only SUGGESTIONS —not all or any of them have to be used, if they won’t work for your marriage.
(There’s also a list under the “Romantic Ideas” topic which gives wives 100 ideas, as well, titled 100 Ways Your Can Love Your Husband His Way.)
1. Start and/or end each day by holding hands and praying together with your wife.
2. Pray for her every day and make it a point to pray with her when she is troubled.
3. Communicate with her instead of talking AT her or shutting her out emotionally.
4. Talk to her respectfully without demeaning her or hurting her feelings.
5. Compliment her for the giftedness you see in her. Be specific.
6. Show interest in her friends and give her time to be with them.
7. Do something active together to lift her spirit —even taking a walk hand-in-hand.
8. Express to her that you need and value her.
9. Show enthusiasm for the things that she’s excited about—let your actions show it.
10. Find something that makes you laugh together.
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Marriage, Hollywood vs Reality
Based on tabloids many of the popular couples are doomed in their marriage. There is a list of five popular Hollywood couples who will split before the end of this year.
Divorce seems to be the new great thing since slice bread. Many individuals are at a point where they will leave their marriage whether then to fight for it.
Marriage, what is it? Based on the Dictionary the definition: the state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law.
Marriage in Hollywood:
Again, why are couples in Hollywood rushing to the alter to get divorced and not married, if you would like to see which coulple is heading for divorce click the link below
So, if they understand this why are they getting married and then getting a divorce a couple of months or couple of years later.
Hollywood Vs Reality Marriage
The question is does Hollywood effect reality when it comes to marriage, do indiviuals base there life on the lives of the rich and famous. This is a thought due to the high increase in divorce rates among the average and hollywood are starting to seem similar.
Reality of Fighting for Marriage
What happened to the good ol American marriage, I love you and you love me, we have kids and live and grow old together. I guess society has changed that and made the world go against marriage. I think marriage is worth fighting for if you have looked in the mirror at your self and figured out what do I need to change to save my marriage.
Below, is a link on marriage and why you should fight for your marriage and not get divorced. If one is curious and wants to see a diffrent view click the link to see.
In my final thoughts i feel all these people have the world in their business, just like celebrity marriages, common marriages like you and I have. If you have people all in your business and your marriage is based on how you think others will feel, then your marriage is doomed. Marriage is a two way street with two lanes one going north and one going south. Having a her way and his way will eventually get you in a wreck. You learn to work on the others strong point and work together and let one lead in that area so you are on one road heading for success not failure. An example of what I am thinkng about’ if i can cook and the wife can not, then she will get the stuff out and help prep while I cook, if one is good with budgeting the money, then one cuts back spending and listen to the budget with the person who is more experienced in that area so that you are on the same page.
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